Friendship expiry dates — what my aunt and I used to call it when one friendship ended.
I’m a firm believer of fate. Somehow I just had the thought that fate is somehow the key to the people you meet, the things that happen and basically anything that has to be there.
I can’t say that my friendships are well maintained. There were times when people just left and you still don’t know why after so many years. Or the ones where it just ended. Like maybe with a misunderstanding that nobody bothers to clear up.
Or maybe it was meant to remain unsolved.
When I was younger, friendship meant a lot to me. It still does. But I don’t get so hung up if me and my friends don’t talk as often as before. Everyone is busy and I get it, we will all drift apart someday. The ones that talk are probably the ones that puts in efforts and perhaps still wanna stay in touch.
I don’t blame anyone when friendships end. Perhaps, it’s the day when it expires?
Let me share a short story. Recently, I met a new friend out of school. I’ve never really went out of my way to make friends unless I have to. But somehow, I’ve decided to make friend with this person. But somehow after a period of texting, I guess I just didn’t want to talk to this person anymore. Talk about bad timing, things clashed and I got pissed. I don’t think the other party knows. But I’ve never had this regret feeling before. Somehow I had it, for the first time ever.
It’s pretty much like how food will turn mouldy and all once it reaches its expiry date… My friendships turn out to be like this somehow. I don’t blame it on the other party. I would say, it’s probably me. I’m not a girl with the best attitude or personality. But then sometimes, I just have the gut feeling that it should be like this. And my gut feelings are very accurate, most of the time. Perhaps I really shouldn’t have talked to that person in the first place. But then again, who knows? 🙂
This is probably just a rant, or maybe just me realising that I am happier being with myself. No hard feelings.
How do you feel about friendships nowadays?